now i can officially say that i should not worry Adam ter-accident di siang hari. dah takde dah langsung (insyaAllah laa.. kang aku puji di sini esok eksiden plak).. before raya dia dah dpt rentak that he is going to be diaper-free. even at night. seriously dia akan bangun pagi dgn bangga, “mama, Adam tak cing pers, Adam cing oyet”. (translation – mama, Adam tak kencing kat diaper, Adam nak kencing kat toilet”
That went veryy well, sampai la raya. I guess dia kepenatan. Even today, dah berbelas hari raya pun aku tak sure nak tidokan dia diaperless, because he follows our marhaban trip every night, without fail! balik rumah terus dptkan his milk-dose, pastu krohh krohh. tdo lena sehingga pagi.
Even when go to beraya, I would ask him, bisik2.. “adam nak gi toilet?”.. kalau dia tgh syiok main aku tanya, dia akan jawab “TANAKKKKKK”. kuat2. hahahaha
My angels sleep early these days. The eldest, penat beraya. The youngest, penat explore the house/enhance his new walking skill. He walks pretty fast now, walaupun kadang2 mcm jalan transformers. He won’t sit when he’s awake. Tak akan duduk! Walaupun mengantuk, dia masih akan berjalan. hahahha
But I know his sleepy sign – dia jln tak betul and akan jatuh sana sini. haha ngantuk sgt la tu. Sekejap je akan tertido.
I am happy with my kids. I know, he’s not showing any sign of reading yet. But it is so ok.
Talking about manners, Adam is a good boy, agak malu2 kucing la bila baru kenal. He is soft.
Tapi bila dia marah tu la yg jadi tak berkenan. His words were unbelievable. I caught him saying ‘lempang’ several times. Everytime, I would scold him.
Then, one day, he said the word ‘lempang’ again to my SIL, his aunt. When she said, “bgtau mama”, Adam terus nangis.. He is afraid that I would scold him, but he doesn’t understand why. That is not what I want.
I remembered, when I stayed at home for 2 weeks, before changing to a new job, I hd a terrible time controlling Adam. I was yelling everytime he did wrong. Then I realized, I was wasting my energy and I sent a wrong message to him. BIla tukar kaedah kepada ckp berlembut (tp aku kena sabar tahap gaban), baru la dia tunjukkan improvement yg sangat sangat sangat mendadak.
Cthnya – dia panjat meja and lompat2. Bila marah, dia kaan marah balik. tp lepas approach yg lembut, dia akan ckp balik kat aku (bila aku dah tegur)
“mama, tak boleh panjat meja? nnt jatuh kan?
oooh you didn’t know how proud i was.
now, mission is on. to get rid some of his bad vocabs. heeee.. good luck to mama.