Aku tulis ni dlm keadaan waras dan bukan dgn ikut perasaan. Ok la, aku tanya ni kat korang yg baca. Korang dah kawin, and pasangan korang gi minum2 dgn org single, yg bukan officemate, bukan kawan lama. Tapi kawan biasa.. awan yg takde mengena kerja, dan bukan terserempak di kedai mkn.
apa korang rasa?
aku akan rasa tak best. aku tak suka. even if i know that my husband has nothing to do with that girl. but syaitan ada di antara mereka. who knows sooner later there might be a spark between them. mintak dijauhkan.
the case is different if the girl is his long-lost besties at primary school (bcos in my case, i knew he is from all-boys-secondary), or he and that girl stranded in London airport bcos God-knows-why reason, or any valid reason.
seeing him chatting with other girl pun aku tak suka. why? bcos i don’t do that. bcos i respect him as my husband. and you know, married man is proven more attractive compared to single guy. i am talking about experience. they know why girls have their mood swings, and the problem is when his wife is swinging at full blast, he walks away from the perimeter. hahahhaha
i hope i would not catching him dating another girl. i know he will not. because he is the one i choose to spend the rest of my life with. i trust him 90%.. haha of course i cannot stop myself from stalking his fb, calls, sms, and whatsnot. pftt~
i’ve seen real example, one married guy having a cuppa tea with one single lady (of course dia terus kena label buruk dgn aku). they are not from the same office, not in the same biz. you know what, these ladies mcm takde tulang nak diri sendiri to minum sorang. whaddaheck?
i could go and date anyone i want if ajek is away. but i choose not to. kenapa? perintah Allah. jauhkan la segala penyebab yg boleh mendorong ke arah kemungkaran.
dalam hidup kita ada pilihan. kalau pergi pasar, kita pilih nak beli buah yg busuk atau buah yg elok dalam satu longgok.
kita pilih ikan yg segar dari ikan yg busuk walaupun free.
pilihan kita menunjukkan siapa kita, tanpa perlu kita berkata apa-apa. walaupun selepas tu sibuk kita nak ckp semua fakta utk menidakkan apa-apa kesan tindakan kita.
kita mmg boleh ckp, mmg boleh tipu org. boleh ke tipu diri sendiri?
so young ladies, keep your itchy body away from married guys (who already has itchy balls, married or singles). you could ask help, tak salah. but know ur limits.
i could go lengthy about this.
to make the husbands know how the wife is feeling, allow your wife to go for a tea with another single guy, or a dinner. while waiting for the lady to come home, take care the kids, prepare the meal and make sure they had their bath by 6.30. before that, take them to the playground and play hide-and-seek.
if you wanna do something not right, pls remember that someone is waiting for you at the doorstep, missing you in every other way, even she’s not showing it.